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Essex Safeguarding Children Board

What to do if you’re worried

 

Trust your instincts and seek support early.  If something doesn’t feel right, it’s important to trust your instincts. You don’t need to be certain about what is happening to take action. Early conversations and support can help prevent harm.

You don’t have to deal with concerns on your own.

 

Start with a conversation

 

If it feels safe to do so:

  • Talk to your child and keep the conversation open
  • Stay calm and listen without judgement
  • Reassure them they are not in trouble
  • Let them know you want to help and support them

 

If your child doesn’t want to talk, that’s okay. Let them know you’re there and keep checking in.

 

Seek advice and support

 

If you’re unsure what to do next, you can:

  • Speak to your child’s school or college
  • Contact local support services for advice
  • Reach out to organisations that support parents and carers

Getting advice does not automatically mean making a formal report, it can help you understand options and next steps.

 

Local Support;

You can request advice and support from Children & Families Social Care; Report a concern about a child: When to report a concern | Essex County Council or access resources and support via various signposted local services that can help; Support for children, young people and families | Essex County Council

 

National Support;

SafeCall
SafeCall provides confidential advice and support for parents and carers who are worried about exploitation or missing children

0808 800 5050

www.safecall.org.uk

 

You can contact SafeCall for:

  • Advice if you’re unsure whether something is exploitation
  • Support with next steps
  • Help thinking through difficult conversations

 

NSPCC Helpline
For advice and support if you’re worried about a child’s safety.

0808 800 5000

www.nspcc.org.uk

 

The Children’s Society #LookCloser
Information and guidance to help parents understand exploitation and spot the signs.

www.childrenssociety.org.uk/lookcloser

 

When to report concerns

 

If you believe a child or young person may be at risk:

  • 999 if a child is in immediate danger
  • 101 to report non‑emergency concerns to the police
  • Crimestoppers 0800 555 111 if you wish to report anonymously

You do not need proof. Concern is enough to share.

 

What happens next

 

If concerns are shared, safeguarding professionals will:

  • Assess the information
  • Decide what support or action is needed
  • Work with relevant services to help keep a child safe

You may not always be told details of what happens next, but sharing concerns can help protect your child and others.

 

Important to Remember:

 

  • Exploitation is never the child’s fault
  • Young people may feel scared, confused or loyal to others
  • Asking for help is a positive step, not a failure

Acting early and seeking support can make a real difference.

 

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